After seeing her Ex cheating with another woman while being 8 months pregnant in a hotel…
She broke up, went through hell with two kids, became broke…
But she bounced back financially and emotionally in just 6 months, and now she wants to show you:
The “Not Talked Soft Structure” That Helped Her Stop Shaking, Start Earning, and Rebuild Her Identity After Narcissistic Abuse!
This "Not Talked Soft Structure" has helped her rebuild her life financially and emotionally, even despite having 2 kids.
From the desk of Valerie Umelo.
Hey Sis,
I understand how you feel. You’ve gone through hell the past few months…
You’re confused, tired, and frustrated about everything that’s happening to you after leaving that abusive relationship…
I feel your pain.
And that’s because I was in your shoes some months back…
On this page, you’ll discover what I did that helped me rebuild my life in just 6 months, even while having 2 kids who were looking up to me…
And just in case you’re asking yourself subconsciously…
Here’s why:
I was married for 10 years and was maltreated, cheated on until I left…
Even with a child for this man, he never stopped cheating and beating me…
He would tell me he had changed, but I always caught him…
During my eight months of pregnancy with my second child, I noticed this man booked a hotel and lodged another girl…
I wanted to know if it was really TRUE.
I used the spare key he left in the room unknowingly…
And then opened it…
When I entered, I saw the kind of dirty man I got married to sleeping with another woman…
And guess what?
He still had the guts to tell me I should get out, that I was disturbing them…
At this point, I knew I was no longer his wife, just a slave.
He didn’t even respect the 8-month-old child I was carrying in my stomach.
This is the same man who, when we started, had no job, no money, and was even visionless…
He was unemployed. I coached him, mentored him, paid for courses for him, and even rewrote his CV to match the global market. And he got a job the next month…
I saw potential in him and made it my mission to “fix him.”
Not knowing that fixing him would make him destroy me…
I even helped him get a job at a bank so he could make more money and take care of me and our unborn children…
I was invested in making the relationship work.
I wanted him to be the provider like my dad. So I helped him become that…
And because I had invested a lot in him…
I didn’t want to leave because I hadn’t even reaped anything…
But that day…
I decided to leave this relationship for good after I gave birth…
After I gave birth…
I was planning to leave…
I then called a colleague of mine to ask him some questions about places to stay…
My ex barged in and said, “Are you talking to a man?”
I was scared, with my hands trembling, I said YES.
He then started accusing me of cheating with another man…
Before I could explain what was happening…
He slapped and punched me so hard that I started bleeding…
He didn’t care that my kids were in the other room and the door was open…
Immediately, he wanted to hit me again, I revolted, carried a shoe, and wanted to hit him, telling him it was enough…
He didn’t have the right to hit me again.
He left, saying I could get out of his house.
With tears in my eyes…
My kids came and asked, “Mom, are you fine?”
I said yes. I carried my kids, their clothes, and mine—and left finally…
And we moved into a refuge (a shelter for abused women and children).
I stayed there for several weeks with my children.
The conditions were tough, but it was the first time I felt emotionally safe.
After some weeks there…
Someone gave me a home to stay in for free (a divine provision I didn’t expect).
Me and my kids stayed in the refuge.
But it was the first time I felt safe.
Then someone gave me a house for free. They said, “God told me to give you this.”
So I stayed there and raised my kids.
And thank God for the person who gave me a place to stay…
She always gave me money weekly, saying it was God who told her to help me…
After 2 months…
I began to apply for part-time remote roles and eventually landed multiple consulting jobs—one of them being £4,000/month.
This allowed me to
➛ Buy food
➛ Pay for school fees
➛ Regain financial dignity without being fully back in the corporate world
I started getting consulting offers again. I didn’t even push hard—it started flowing.
Life started becoming a little better…
I then decided to heal, because deep down, I hadn’t healed yet.
I decided to do some tasks daily to help reshape my mindset and beliefs, regain peace, and build my confidence again.
It took me 2 months to finally heal…
Because I didn’t have a mentor…
I didn’t have someone to help me become self-reliant again.
I did some tasks, followed some daily habits…
And in two months, after trying some things that didn’t work and some that did, I started feeling peace, being confident, and getting my finances back together.
And after I gained my confidence, peace and started living like the woman I was and even better…
I decided to help other women…
And here’s what they are saying about me:
Now, I want to help you too…
I want to show you what I did that made me gain back my identity even after going through a toxic relationship.
And Note:
It doesn’t matter if
➤ You went through that toxic relationship for 20 years.
➤ You were almost beaten to death.
➤ You are mentally drained and lack energy.
➤ It doesn’t even matter if you have more kids than I did.
If you go through the same things I went through…
➤ You will regain your confidence, peace, and mental strength again to look at life and confront it.
➤ You will start getting your financial life back together.
➤ You will never miss that toxic man again—instead, someone better will come for you.
Now, what I did took a lot of time and energy to discover…
I had to read books on trauma, abuse, self-identity, motivation, psychology, and even finance to get myself back…
I was feeling burned out every single day because I wanted to know what to do to get back on my feet—financially, mentally, and emotionally.
And I did.
But the process was very painful, stressful, and financially draining…
And some of the things I bought were a waste of money…
Which is why I decided to package what I know works...
What I know has worked for me and moved me from someone who felt so intimidated, broke, and mentally drained.
To someone who is confident, has peace within, and is even financially stable.
I’ve packaged everything I know works in the Healing and Rebuilding Bundle.
The Healing and Rebuilding Bundle is for people who have already left a toxic relationship or marriage but now feel stuck in emotional confusion, financial instability, and identity loss.
This bundle offers step-by-step support to stabilize, heal, and begin again with clarity—no matter what you’ve been through in that toxic relationship.
The Healing and Rebuilding Bundle is divided into three phases. And each week, you will go through another phase.
Here’s what each phase represents and what you will become after going through each phase:
Phase 1: Emotional Reset
What you will discover inside here will show you how to calm your mind around the storm you are facing currently…
A glimpse of what you will discover:
➲ That you aren’t crazy—you’ve just gone through crazy things, and how to use that as fuel to achieve success
➲ How to move from crazy to being normal again
➲ How to stop judging yourself every time you remember your past
➲ You are not a failure—and the real meaning of what you are currently going through
➲ Understanding the body-mind connection so you heal after the trauma you went through
➲ A special technique to detach your identity from survival mode
➲ How to move from guilt and fear and experience rest inside of you
➲ My 3-step strategy to train your body to expect peace daily
➲ How to build emotional safety by honoring your inner voice
➲ How to protect your energy through boundaries
➲ How to detach emotionally while honoring your humanity as a woman
➲ The secret of seeing your life as a journey
➲ How to build your confidence as a woman who went through a traumatic relationship
➲ The mindset shift that helps you finally stop living on edge
➲ A one-hour digital silence that retrains your brain to trust stillness
➲ The stretch ritual that releases trauma from your shoulders, jaw, and belly
➲ The invisible way to say “no” without confrontation or explanation
➲ And many more…
If we were to put a worth on what you’ll be discovering in this phase, it would be worth $300.
Phase 2: Identity Rebuilding
What you will discover in this phase will help you rediscover who you were before you entered that relationship.
A glimpse of what you will discover:
➲ Why his rejection, betrayal, or manipulation never defined your value—and how to take your power back
➲ The 6-word affirmation that rewires your self-worth in less than 60 seconds
➲ The bold step that teaches your nervous system: “you no longer chase peace where I lose myself”
➲ How to stop shrinking and start owning your presence—in rooms, conversations, and even your clothes
➲ The voice note that reminds you: shrinking isn’t humility—it’s self-abandonment
➲ A simple physical action that flips the “small girl” story in your mind forever
➲ Rebuild your relationship with the mirror—without forcing self-love or fake positivity
➲ The 1-minute mirror moment that helps you look again, this time without criticism
➲ How to create a boundary and learn the courage to actually keep it
➲ Why “doing more” isn’t healing—and how rest can be your new rebellion
➲ And many more…
If we were to put a value on this phase as well… What you will be discovering in this phase will be worth $500.
Phase 3: Life Restructuring
What you will discover in this phase will help you finally reclaim your future.
A glimpse of what you will discover:
➲ Why starting over doesn’t make you a failure—it makes you fearless
➲ The mirror ritual that silences shame and reminds you how far you’ve already come
➲ A powerful list-making exercise to prove you’re already rebuilding (even if no one sees it yet)
➲ The truth about routines—and the wrong belief people have about them
➲ Create your own “anchor routine” in under 5 minutes and shift your energy daily
➲ Why rhythm (not hustle) is the new proof of power as a woman
➲ Give yourself permission to want more—without guilt, fear, or apology
➲ Use this visual/mental exercise to reconnect with the woman you’re becoming
➲ Why writing down 3 new dreams (without deadlines) will unlock long-lost clarity
➲ Why your bank balance doesn’t define your worth—and how to shift that mindset
➲ The Money Reset Tool that helps you find your first win, even if you’re broke
➲ Say goodbye to shame and hello to small money power moves
➲ Why your child needs your healing more than your perfection
➲ A 5-minute connection ritual that transforms your parenting without pressure
➲ The guilt release that lets you stop faking strength and start showing up with presence
➲ The lie that says, “you’re not ready yet” and the truth that sets you free
➲ Celebrate your emotional milestone with a ritual that anchors this new identity
➲ Write a letter to your future self and speak into your next season with clarity and confidence
➲ Learn how to hold progress and imperfection in the same hand
➲ And many more…
What you will be discovering in this phase is worth $500.
So here’s a recap of what you are getting when you get this Healing and Rebuilding Bundle today:
Phase 1: Worth $300
Phase 2: Worth $500
Phase 3: Worth $500
In total, the worth of the Healing and Rebuilding Bundle that you are getting is $1,300.
But here’s the thing…
You are not going to pay that amount.
You won’t even be paying half of that amount.
Before I tell you the price…
Here are some bonuses I decided to give you when you get this program today:
Bonus 1: The Printable Progress Tracker You see, most women don’t quit healing because it’s not working. They quit because they can’t see the progress.
The truth is, when you’re coming out of survival mode, healing feels slow… messy… and invisible.
That’s why I’m giving you this beautifully designed Printable Progress Tracker to help you see yourself rebuilding in real time.
Inside, you’ll track:
➡️ Your daily habits (even the tiny ones that feel “too small to count”)
➡️ Your emotional shifts from shame to self-compassion
➡️ Your moments of courage—saying no, choosing rest, journaling the truth
This isn’t just a tracker. It’s a mirror that says: “You’re not going in circles. You’re going forward.”
By the time you hit Day 21, you’ll look back and say, “I did that. I showed up. I kept going.”
And that feeling? It’s what keeps you rebuilding long after the 21 days end.
You’ll get this bonus free when you grab The Healing & Rebuilding Bundle today. The worth of this bonus is $100.
Bonus 2: Confidence Audio Pep Talks Let’s face it… healing isn’t linear. One day, you feel strong. The next, you’re back in your head, questioning everything:
➡ “Maybe it was my fault.”
➡ “I shouldn’t be this emotional anymore.”
➡ “I don’t even know who I am without him.”
I have been there. That’s why I recorded these Confidence Audio Pep Talks—short, powerful, voice-note-style messages you can play anytime the shame creeps back in.
You’ll get 3 raw, heart-to-heart audios from me that speak into:
➡️ Your moments of spiral and self-doubt
➡️ The days you feel invisible or unworthy
➡️ The lies that trauma still whispers (and how to shut them up)
You don’t need another podcast. You need a sister in your ear.
Whether you’re driving, walking, crying in the bathroom, or just trying to hold it together in front of your kids— these audios were made to hold you together when everything feels like it’s falling apart.
You’ll want to keep these forever. Yours FREE when you get The Healing & Rebuilding Bundle today. The worth of this bonus is $500.
Bonus 3: The Money Reset Mini-Guide What’s healing without financial stability?
I suffered in my healing phase because I didn’t have enough money to take care of myself and my kids. I didn’t just lose my relationship when I left. I left my income, savings, and even financial security.
And this is probably the same thing with you. That’s why I decided to create…
The Money Reset Mini-Guide—a gentle, trauma-informed tool to help you stop panicking about money and start feeling powerful with what you have.
Inside, you’ll learn:
➡️ How to rewire the toxic money beliefs your past left you with
➡️ What to do when you’re starting from zero financially and how to move to a new financial level
➡️ 5 ways to increase your income currently—even if you have no experience working
This isn’t about budgeting. It’s about making more money and multiplying what you have currently. It’s a financial recovery for women who are still healing.
You’ll receive it FREE when you get The Healing & Rebuilding Bundle today. The worth of this bonus alone is $500.
Bonus 4: Printable Mirror Affirmation Cards After years of being ignored, insulted, or broken down… The mirror doesn’t always feel like a friend.
But it can become one again. And these 25 trauma-informed affirmation cards will help you get there.
They’re truth bombs for women who’ve walked through hell and are still standing.
You’ll get printable cards you can:
➡️ Stick on your mirror, journal, fridge, or closet
➡️ Read aloud in the morning when your confidence feels shaky
➡️ Keep in your bag for a quiet reminder when you’re triggered
This bonus will help you rewrite the inner dialogue abuse tried to script into you—one sticky note at a time.
These affirmations are yours FREE when you say yes to The Healing & Rebuilding Bundle today. This bonus alone is worth $400.
And that’s it for the bonuses.
Here are the total bonuses you are getting:
Bonus 1: The Printable Progress Tracker (worth $100)
Bonus 2: Confidence Audio Pep Talks (worth 500)
Bonus 3: The Money Reset Mini-Guide (worth $500)
Bonus 4: Printable Mirror Affirmation Cards (worth $400)
The total bonus
worth is $1,500
So here’s everything you are getting:
The healing and rebuilding bundle (worth $1300)
Total bonuses: $1,500
The total worth of what you are getting is $2800.
Now, I know you are curious about the price.
Here is the thing: I won’t charge you the worth of this program.
Because you are right here on this page…
I won’t even charge you half the worth of everything you are getting.
Which is going to be $1,400.
Because you are here on this page.
You can grab all these for just $50
I can hear you say that’s too cheap.
Yes, it is…
And here’s why:
I want you to have no reason for missing this bundle and take charge of your emotional and even financial life again.
So that you and your kids can enjoy even without a presence of a father
Now, that’s not all…
Because I am sure this bundle is going to help you live again after that traumatic relationship.
I have decided to give you a…
A FULL MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE
If you get this bundle today and go through everything inside—and you don’t see a change in your life after 21 days—I will give you your money back.
No questions asked!
I’ll even add an apology letter for wasting your time.
I’m doing this because I’m sure it will work for you.
It has worked for me and for other people I’ve shown it to.
Now, here’s my final message…
I have shared with you my story.
How I escaped the trauma I felt after leaving my relationship.
And how I escaped is actually all explained inside the healing and rebuilding bundle.
All you need to heal and get back your peace, confidence, and even finances back on track in just 21 days.
Which step do you want to take from here?
Get the bundle or continue struggling to heal?
Your choice.
Frequently asked questions:
This bundle is different because it was created by someone who has been exactly where you are rebuilding emotionally, financially, and mentally after real-life abuse. It doesn’t give you theories, it gives you structure. No pressure, no fluff, just a clear and proven daily path forward.
This bundle was made for women who feel exactly like that. You won’t need to do anything overwhelming. Most tasks take less than 10 minutes a day. And even if you only complete half of it, you’ll feel the shift. It’s not about perfection, it’s about gentle consistency.
You don’t need strength to begin, just honesty. This program meets you where you are in the mess, in the fog, in the “I don’t even know who I am anymore” moment. You can be broken and still show up. That alone is strength.
Yes. This bundle is not about timelines. Some women leave and move on fast, others carry trauma for years. If you're still triggered, tired, unsure, or emotionally exhausted, this will help you get unstuck — gently and intentionally.
Most healing advice is either too fluffy or too clinical. This was built by a woman who lived it through betrayal, motherhood, financial collapse, and emotional trauma. You’re not getting generic worksheets, you’re getting what actually helped her rebuild her identity, routine, money and self-worth.
Healing is not about reliving trauma. It’s about creating safety in your body and space to move forward. This bundle teaches you to feel gently, not violently. Every day includes grounding rituals and affirmations to keep you steady, not spiraling.
Yes. Everything is delivered digitally and privately. You can go through the material quietly, at your pace, with no one watching. This is your safe space to do this work for you.
That’s completely fair. You’re covered by a money-back guarantee. If you complete the first few days and feel it’s not helping, email us and you’ll get a full refund, no questions, no guilt.
This isn’t just about emotions, it's about life. Week 3 focuses on real rebuilding: parenting from peace, getting clarity around money, starting small routines, and visualizing the woman you’re becoming. You’ll come out with emotional strength and life structure.
This bundle was created especially for women who don’t have access to therapy right now. It offers the structure, safety, and support of a guided healing experience — without the high price tag or weekly sessions. It’s not a replacement for therapy, but it’s a powerful bridge to emotional freedom.